I change who I am entirely about once every 3 years. Each time, someone a little better. Polyamorous and dating the enchanting Little Feline Fatale (dollykills.tumblr.com) and a lovely little creature who thinks she's a dad. (oheyimdad.tumblr.com)
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Constellation
I love she who loves another and
Sometimes that means finding the place
Just right
In the middle of our bed
While she shares his instead…
And smiling at her happiness
Their love.
I’m not the sun
But i do try to give her light
Be a star in her sky
Which has other bright spots
Reblogged from kinkykittengirl
In defence of separate bedrooms
Me and my boyfriend have our own bedrooms. And I always feel when I tell people this I always feel I need to justify it. We do usually sleep in the same bed, you know. We are a couple.
It was important for us both, as it turned out, that we have to have our own space. Some of the reasons are specifically poly, and some are not–as with most relationship advice.
-having somewhere to have other partners over without imposing on your live in partner(s) is useful
-it’s emotionally healthy to have a space that is just your own where you can shut the door on the rest of the world when you need to. Where you can keep your things and decorate it however makes you happy.
-being able to easily have space during disagreement helps head off arguments
-being able to “stay over at your partner’s place” even when you live together keeps it feeling fun and exciting
-making a conscious decision to share a bed each night is a good way to practise informed consent, and makes it easier to have a night to yourself when you want to without it feeling like a slight on your partner
-being able to close the door on your partner’s mess means no more arguments over dirty socks on the floor
I appreciate we’re lucky that we have the money and the space to do this, and not everyone can. But I think being able to choose to spend time together is far more romantic than being in an enclosed space together.
I love this more than I thought I would
@dollykills <3
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irelia: my pussy claps to the beat of ionia
karma: what does it sound like
irelia: africa by toto
Lmaoooo
Reblogged from dollykills
I already told you I’m not fucking interested ~
Fuck okay alright
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idk man but the idea of cuddling w your partner under a soft blanket on a cold day n having them asleep in your arms while you’re quietly playing video games or something just sounds rlly nice